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Model drops jaws with list of '118 reasons not to have kids'
Model drops jaws with list of '118 reasons not to have kids'
Having kids is not easy. It requires a huge deal of sacrifice, compromise and patience and can sometimes feel like a pretty thankless task. And yet, not everyone feels comfortable admitting that they’d prefer to avoid such trials and tribulations by simply not becoming a parent. Enter Ellie Gonsalves, an Australian model and influencer who has sparked a fierce internet debate by sharing every single reason why she has chosen to remain “child free”. The L'Oréal ambassador posted her 118-point-long list to Instagram, explaining: “Societal pressure when it comes to this topic are (sic) truly questionable and I believe unfair towards those with differing opinions. “Very rarely do we see a voice in support of this… because let's face it, the public backlash can be too much.” Her arguments against starting a family include the risk that a child can “turn into a rapist”; that “they can poo inside you” and that you are “more susceptible to yeast infections while pregnant”. The full list is as follows: Inevitably, her catalogue proved divisive among readers, with one woman commenting: “Your 'list' on why you don't want kids are (sic) all negative, but how about the positives? The Positives completely outweigh. “Of course, it's a person's choice as to whether they want to be a parent,” she added. “But a lot of your list were (sic) very vain reasons [in my opinion].” Another added: “So much fear. Better not to have kids if that's what you will instil into them anyway. Gosh, so many self-centred people in this world.” However, others defended Gonsalves, with one asking: “Am I seriously reading comments from women who are offended by your decision..? What’s wrong with people?!?!. “It’s 1milliion percent (sic) your choice- end of story. I really don’t understand people sometimes.” And another said: “I’m with you. I’m 40, don’t have kids, and never wanted kids (...) I had a coworker ask me once, ‘If you don’t have kids, who’s going to take care of you when you’re old?’ I remember thinking, (and still do), that that’s a selfish reason to HAVE kids.” In her statement accompanying the list, the 32-year-old said that she had received “hundreds of DMs criticizing me [and telling] me how much of a horrible and broken person that I am.” She insisted that whilst some of the points she included are “satirical”, “many are serious and factual.” She added: “As someone in a 15-year relationship, I have [been asked whether I want kids] for almost that entire time and it’s probably the most frequent [question] I get.” She then said she could count “on one hand” the number of times people posing the question have been respectful and understanding of her views. Still, she stressed that she was glad that her message had resonated with so many women. “It's been nice to read hundreds of comments from people who feel seen, people who have also had uncomfortable moments where others have questioned their choice and all that has done is made them feel awful or uncomfortable,” she told Mamamia. She also said that the fury her list had provoked simply reinforced her argument. “People are sold a certain life,” she noted. “And when they witness others choosing a different path, the frustration lies within themselves.” Sign up for our free Indy100 weekly newsletter Have your say in our news democracy. Click the upvote icon at the top of the page to help raise this article through the indy100 rankings
2023-11-27 19:21
'Planet of the Bass' might be the best parody song you hear this year
'Planet of the Bass' might be the best parody song you hear this year
Eurodance appears to have taken over the whole of social media as comedian Kyle Gordon’s parody song 'Planet of the Bass' goes viral. The song has led to a rare moment of unification across social media as people revel in the song that takes its inspiration from 90s pop acts like La Bouche and Aqua. Gordon’s video has been viewed over 3.5 million times and text overlaying the clip described it as “Every European Dance Song in the 1990s”. Sign up to our free Indy100 weekly newsletter The parody track itself is called 'Planet of the Bass (feat. DJ Crazy Times & Ms. Biljana Electronica)' and people have been loving it. It features an upbeat tempo, a lot of synths and grammatically incorrect lyrics, mimicking the sound and feel of 'Barbie Girl' by Aqua with a female vocalist and a male vocalist with a deep, raspy voice. Lyrics include: “Danger and dance, clapping the hands, when we out in the space, on the planet of the bass.” @kylegordonisgreat Planet of the Bass (feat. DJ Crazy Times & Ms. Biljana Electronica) #djcrazytimes #eurodance #90s #dancemusic #edm #funny #funnyvideos #funnytiktok The song has even captured the attention of some industry experts, with Mark Harris, a former entertainment journalist admitting this track would have taken off. Harris tweeted: “I was at Entertainment Weekly when this would have been a hit, and in 1997 we absolutely would have given these two a full page with a photo shoot and a very short story that tried to get around the fact that they spoke no English.” The band Aqua also commented on the TikTok, writing: “Wait, is this play about us???” Another referenced a lyric that is gaining a lot of traction online, writing: “I want a ‘Women are my favourite guy’ t-shirt.” “Eurovision is calling,” someone else hinted. Have your say in our news democracy. Click the upvote icon at the top of the page to help raise this article through the indy100 rankings.
2023-08-01 22:29
Here's how Joe Rogan influenced a famed sushi chef to relocate from California to Austin
Here's how Joe Rogan influenced a famed sushi chef to relocate from California to Austin
During his visit to chef Philip Frankland Lee's pop-up, Joe Rogan played a massive role in motivating him to open a permanent sushi place in Austin
2023-11-22 19:19
Andrew Tate shares blueprint to ascend as a 'Top G', unveils technique to mirror his masculinity
Andrew Tate shares blueprint to ascend as a 'Top G', unveils technique to mirror his masculinity
Andrew Tate, who promotes toxic masculinity on social media, has some rather aggressive views about success and fame
2023-07-16 19:21
New poll reveals the sheer extent to which Fox News viewers remain loyal to Trump
New poll reveals the sheer extent to which Fox News viewers remain loyal to Trump
The Fox News audience remains firmly in Donald Trump's corner.
2023-08-01 09:26
Britney Spears’ husband files for divorce 14 months after a they were married
Britney Spears’ husband files for divorce 14 months after a they were married
A person close to Britney Spears' husband Sam Asghari says the model and actor has filed to divorce the pop superstar
2023-08-17 15:24
Is Sara Haines leaving 'The View'? Co-host spotted on set of different ABC show during summer break
Is Sara Haines leaving 'The View'? Co-host spotted on set of different ABC show during summer break
Sara Haines shared glimpses of herself on the set of ABC's 'What Would You Do Now?' on social media
2023-08-09 11:18
NFL Network and NFL RedZone will be offered direct to consumer on 'NFL+' service
NFL Network and NFL RedZone will be offered direct to consumer on 'NFL+' service
The NFL is making additional moves to reach more fans with direct-to-consumer offerings
2023-08-11 03:57
From Amber Heard to Angelina Jolie, all the celebs diagnosed with BPD amid Pete Davidson's rehab stint
From Amber Heard to Angelina Jolie, all the celebs diagnosed with BPD amid Pete Davidson's rehab stint
Pete Davidson recently checked into a rehab due to his struggles with PTSD and BPD
2023-06-29 16:52
'The creative juices weren't flowing!' Calvin Harris grew 'tired' of playing Las Vegas shows
'The creative juices weren't flowing!' Calvin Harris grew 'tired' of playing Las Vegas shows
Superstar DJ Calvin Harris has told how he grew "tired" of playing a residency in Las Vegas because it his "creative juices weren't flowing" and he didn't make new songs for a year and a half.
2023-08-22 15:26
Who is Monica Garcia? 'RHOSLC' Season 4 newbie is Jen Shah's former assistant
Who is Monica Garcia? 'RHOSLC' Season 4 newbie is Jen Shah's former assistant
'RHOSLC' Season 4 newbie was introduced to the Bravo ladies through her friend Angie Katsanevas
2023-09-06 06:57
Young Romanians discuss Andrew Tate's growing influence on them amid ongoing human trafficking legal battle: 'Listen to what he says'
Young Romanians discuss Andrew Tate's growing influence on them amid ongoing human trafficking legal battle: 'Listen to what he says'
Romanian boys assert that Andrew Tate helped them get stronger
2023-09-09 17:45